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Filed under: Uncategorized — christycasey at 3:50 pm on Sunday, January 20, 2008



I so related to this article and I am not Asian!  I often times struggle with speaking up in class and let my thoughts slip away and not be heard because I feel uncomfortable speaking out.  I am naturally a quiet and very private person.  I turn in all class assignments on time and try to do my best on the work that is assigned.  I am a totally different person when I am in my comfort zone…people can’t really get me to stop talking and I think I can be quite funny at times.  I work better in small group settings or one-on-one.  I found this article particulary interesting to read.  I tried to think back and remember any particular person of Asian culture whom I felt fit this image and I couldn’t.  In the section entitled, “Snapshots from the Classroom,” I found it interesting that the reason the boy Jeff had not spoken a lot about an assignment he had completed within his small group was because he was brought up to beleive that it was “a sign of strength to solve your problems yourself and not to impose them on others.”  I never really thought that “quiet” people could have other reasons for not speaking up other than being shy and feeling uncomfortable.  I found the section where the students told what would help them speak out more also interesting.  I like how they agreed that when they are given a time in which they can talk instead of just jumping into a conversation could help.  I also liked how they thought giving each group in the small groups a job to do instead of just sitting there wondering who was going to speak first and what to speak about.  I think these ideas can be adapted very well to any classroom.  This article opened the door for me that there are many different reasons why people behave in the way they do…it is our job to get to know these students and help them join the classroom where they feel culturally safe.

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   coreyrieke

January 20, 2008 @ 7:13 pm

Hi Christy! I’m so glad I’m getting a chance to respond to your post, because I completely relate to being afraid to speak up. It’s still so hard for me and it’s something that I’ve struggled with for a long time. I’m doing my best to change myself as a result of this program and speak up more. It is a daily battle. :~)
However, just like you, I never thought about there being other reasons why a child might not speak up in class. In a way, I think that the idea of being self-disciplined enough to solve your problems on your own is somewhat admirable and very brave.
I also agree with you that the ideas given in the article for cooperative group learning can be beneficial for any culture and any classroom. Teachers have got to take the time to develop the community within their classroom. I think that they do their students such a disservice if they don’t. Every child, regardless of culture, deserves to believe that his or her voice matters. We owe that to ALL of our students!

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   melaniepar

January 22, 2008 @ 7:32 pm

Hey Christy! Thank you for setting up our book buddies page on the wiki!

Obviously I have a very hard time speaking up in class or in any large group. Whenever I speak up, my face turns bright red and I hate that! Like you, I really thought the only reasons one would not share his thoughts was because he was quiet or didn’t have anything to say! It was interesting to read the cultural reasons some Asians might have for not speaking up. I feel the recommendations for teachers to help their Asian students feel more comfortable speaking up were beneficial.

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   park

January 23, 2008 @ 5:57 pm

Christy,
Isn’t it interesting how color is insignificant whenever we read about a culture within the US? I also am shy and have been for as long as I can recall when I’m in a large group situation. I always thought that it was because that’s how my dad is. Maybe my dad is a reserved being because that was how he was raised, like Jeff in the article…resolve your issues independently to show your strength. I always thought that my opinions weren’t heard as a child because I come from such a large family and I am the youngest child in my family. But now I wonder if it’s because I was the only female child and I wasn’t supposed to speak unless spoken to by others. Anyways, I still have a hard time speaking up in class. There are things I want to say but am sometimes either too scared to do so or by the time I’ve gathered my thoughts, we’ve moved on to the next topic. I think you know from being in the same book club that I speak more in our small group settings than in the large group meetings. It’s comforting to know that it’s not just me who feels this way. As a teacher, I think we all should take this into consideration when considering participation grades for our students.
Jen Park

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   sweethonesty

January 24, 2008 @ 4:34 am

I could also relate to Jeff but from a totally different perspective. I was shy in elementary school and my teachers knew this. I read well and answered questions when asked but I would never initiate conversation in our groups. I guess my teachers viewed me as a very capable student so they pushed me to become more social and outspoken. By fifth grade, they were probably wondering, “What have we done” because I later became a VERY social butterfly! Like Jeff, my family also taught us to “solve problems on our own” and “not to worry others with our issues.” In retrospect, that was not good advice because I spent many years trying to do everything on my own without help from others. It took a while for me to realize that I “do” need help sometimes. I also had to give myself permission to accept help from other people. I am grateful to my teachers for not accepting my shy silence and for encouraging me to be more social and outspoken. We naturally think that students should automatically want to participate in class or small group discussions because we as teachers understand the value of engaging dialogue but for students like Jeff, understanding his reasons for being silent and making necessary adjustments to the structure of the groups are crucial.

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